Wednesday, March 11, 2009 ' 12:06 AM
Gal this post is for u
sorry ah too much things to say le ... cant tag u back ... hahaha ...
gal remmeber what i said?? is oK to be feeling this way, dun need to rush into trying to forget all these hurts cos it takes time =) dun need to force urself to forget
(the more u wan to forget something, the more u are reminding urself to forget and you wont be able to get over it de)Gal listen to mummy, no need le, no need to talk le, no need to see him anymore le, no need to ask anything le, no need to know anymore things le. let me ask u "what's the point of knowing so much!!!" tell me!! why do u wan to know all these when things had already came into this stage! dun tel me cos the more he hurts u, the more u will get it over faster. why do u wan more hurts in ur life???? isn't the hurt for u is big enough already?? PLS dun be so silly/foolish anymore hao ma?
Let me give u a scenario:
someone close to u met an accident and died. he's dead already. U missed him so much so much, trying hard not to miss or think so him. cos the more u think of the memories u had for him, u will tear non-stop. Do u need to keep asking pple why did the car hit him? why was it him and not someone else? Is there anything that he left for me or wanted to tel me but didnt? There will surely be loads and loads of questions u wan to ask! but SO WHAT if u get all these answers???? will he come alive? will it make u feel better?The answer is NO! cos u will feel even more worse by knowing even more things!!! Gal, remember IGNORANCE IS A BLISS.... sometimes the more u know, the more hurtful it is and the scar will be even deeper. DO u know the deeper ur cut is, the harder it can be healed and it will take longer time. And the scar will be even more deep and obvious isn't it? Tel me a good reason that u wan to know so much when he's already GONE!!!
Bygones be bygones.... bless that person and live on in life .... BE BRAVE to face whatever obstacles that are infront of u! Dun see this issue as a bad thing (whenever u gain something, there will surely be something u will lose) same goes (whenever u lose a thing, you will SURELY gain back something). What goes around comes around!! read slowly and think through what i've juz said! give me a cal if u still can't figure out (",() Mummy loves u .. my dear gal!
