Nothing to do so upload a few photos! taken during work... hehe .. vein NANA .. hehe (">)

hmm.. today went to Tiong Bahru for one interview. supposed to start at 23opm but the person in charge wasnt free so i waited for half an hr till 3pm then the interview started... there were 2 rounds of interviews. It was quite Ok, i would say. Hopefully they will pay me at least $1.6K and above. =) Now then I've realized the job market now is really terrible ... arghhhh... !!!! SO hard to find a job man ...

Argh .... I WAN a FULL time job ... anyone got lobang ma??? Intro plssssss....... =)

juz graduated not long ... 7th April will be my graduating ceremony ... so i will be getting my cert on that day ... hmm... not sure if graduating now is a good news or bad news though ...

went sebei sebei aftr work @4am .... then saw you feng and gang there ... had some fun and headed down to Lau Pa Sha for supper/breakfast so to speak ... hahaha ... is like 630am mah ... hehehe ...

hmm... was sick today ... in the morning... lied on bed till late afternoon around 5 plus then woke up ... =( bad news ... juz feeling so weak and tired .. !!! I think I have really been playing very hard ... SO is TIME to get back on feet and look for a GOOD JOB man !! oh GOD help me !!! (">)

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.

She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the etc etc. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

NO MORE 5C'S BUT NEW 5B'S...........^.^

I don't need a CAR, but I want a BMW
I don't need a CONDO, but I want a BUNGALOW
I don't need you to have CASH but I want you to own a BANK
I don't need you to have a CAREER but I want you to be a BOSS
It's interesting for you to read! Most of you would have heard of the Singapore 5C's! : Car, Condo, Credit Card (Gold), Cash and Career

Heard of the 5B's? B - BMW B - Body B - Brain B - Billionaire B - Bungalow And, and addition with the 5K's..................... Kiasu (scared of losing) Kiasee (scared of dying) Kiabor (scared of wife) Kiaboh (scared of having nothing) Kiachenghu (scared of government) ...

Nowadays expectations are higher ... OMG ... guys muz JIA YOU loh cos girls dun go for 5Cs anymore but they go for 5Bs .. hahaha

Val loves taking photos ... lol .. ME TOO ~~ hehehe =)

yesterday I was so pissed off ... stupid idiot!! ARGH .......<<<<<

Wanted to slp early cos have to wake up and meet Dilys after her TP @ westmall. But around 140AM, Someone kept calling me ... I kap his calls so many many times, he super damn bloody hell irritating and pissed me off to the max - still kept calling and msging me!!!! is like the whole 15 mins my phone kept ringing and ringing ... i was already super exhausted and sleepy! PLEASE be more automatic can??? He called and msg until I cant take it, I called back and scold lo ... only then he stop calling n msging me ... !!!! stupid right! the reason he called me cos he wanna meet me to take something that is not important!

ARGH ...

Okay I have enough of my complaints .. now let me show u guys some links to funny videos:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIm9b2dnuzU&feature=related

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jH-oRbhZ-0&NR=1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kw0iNAX00zA

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9JCM--zVwU&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEHS6GhJk2M&feature=related

Hey guys remember to tag me before u leave oK ... =) Thanks for ur support ah ... hahaha mUacKz

On sunday, Pastor preached on Relationship !!! This muz be the HOT topic man ... lol the whole church were jammed packed with people ... (",() anyway I wanna share abt some of the things which I have learnt from this service.

"A self-esteem of a woman, is dependent on how her husband values/appreciates her". This is so true. If her husband always put her down infront of his friends, it simply means she has no value in his eyes! So guys, before u speak anything to her spouse or GF, pls think twice b'coz u might pull down her self-esteem.

Another thing was that "Just having the intension is not enough, we got to have SKILLS!!" The skills to meet ur partner's mentally, emotionally and physically needs. Very often we DO NOT meet our partner's needs as are just meeting the needs that we think is his/her needs. DON'T ever guess what's ur partner's needs are, UNDERSTAND and ASK.

It has became so common that Men and Woman will start to have affairs after marriage. The reason is very simple. B'cos he/she could not fulfill his/hers needs so they have to find the 3rd party to meet what they desire for. Therefore, MEETING UNMET needs ARE IMPORTANT!! And DO NOT ever PRESUME your PARTNER's needs! =)

Affairs means " sexual relationship between two people who are not married to each other".
Sex + True Love = Genuine Intimacy

What does a woman seek for in a relationship?
1) AFFECTION: it symbolizes
a) Security
b) Protection
c) Comfort
d) Approval

Guys pls be more expressive like (giving of cards, gifts, flower, dinner, words) Don't ever forget important dates. lol

What does a Man seek for in a relationship?
1) Sexual fulfillment:
A guy make a decision to get married is primarily cos of SEX. And Men will expect his woman to give it to him whenever he has the urge for it.

Likewise, woman will expect their man to show AFFECTION to her. All these require SKILLS and PRACTICE. =)

The above mentioned is only the Number ONE point. There are 4 more points coming up ... the next service ... hahaha ...

TO BE CONT'D ....keep urself updated !! YEAH .. all the best to ur RELATIONSHIP my friends ... (">)

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